After the Baby is Born: being at home with your newborn
Rest, love, hydrate, nourish
The days and weeks after your baby is born can
be a mix of many emotions and physical changes.
It is important to allow yourself time to be with your newborn and to
ask, and receive the care that both need and deserve. Here are some guidelines and helpful hints.
It is helpful to read this before labour,
have your partner/support read it, and have it close by after the baby is born.
The
first 24 hrs:
·
You
should have someone with you for the first 24hrs.
·
Wake
your partner to accompany you during trips to the bathroom.
·
If you
shower - not too hot, not too long, and have someone either in the bathroom or
in close ear-shot. It is easy to get
dizzy in the shower. If you do get dizzy, sit down and tell someone.
·
Drink
lots of water! Always have a full glass
of water beside you.
·
Eat
well and often.
In terms of bleeding, you will bleed as if
you have your period (or slightly more) in the first few days. The blood will be heavy and red. You may also pass clots as big as an egg when
you stand up and after lying down for awhile – this is normal.
If
you are soaking a pad an hour or less, call care provider immediately. In
order to slow down the bleeding, empty your bladder, nurse the baby, and
massage your uterus until firm.
If
you have tears or stitches:
·
Swelling
is normal and fine in the first day.
·
Take
warm sitz baths with healing herbs, or just salt water.
·
Ice
packs.
·
Take
homeopathic Arnica every few hours.
·
Keep
the area dry. When bleeding slows, try
going bottomless – lying on a bottle or chux pad. Sunlight, even through a window is a great
healer. Also, heat from a lamp can aid
healing and feel good.
Breastfeeding:
·
The
baby will need to nurse every 1 – 3 hours.
If the baby sleeps longer than 5 hours, wake him/her up to feed.
·
Nurse
the baby on demand – this helps to establish good milk supply, flushes the
baby’s system of meconium, and helps to relieve engorgement.
·
Assuring
a good latch is the best way to ease pain and soreness. Use your finger to break suction, and start
over if the baby is not on correctly.
In order to prevent or reduce nipple
soreness, make sure the baby is tummy to tummy with you while you are nursing,
has his/her mouth wide open when latching on, and has most of your areola in
his/her mouth. Try different nursing
positions to reduce pressure on any one area.
Expose your nipples to air after nursing until dry, and apply olive oil,
sweet almond oil, or comfrey root ointment to your nipples. Sore nipples usually improve over the first
week or two postpartum.
Baby
Care:
·
Take the baby’s temperature once every day
for the first 3 days after birth. The normal temperature in a
baby’s armpit is 97.6 plus or minus a degree.
If the temp is too warm or too cool, bundle the baby up
or remove some clothing accordingly and re-check the temperature.
·
The baby should urinate as least once in
the first 24 hrs. After the milk comes in the number of wet
diapers will increase to a minimum of 6-8 wet diapers in a 24 hour period.
·
The baby will pass meconium for the first
several days after birth. This dark and tarry stool can be
more easily wiped off if you put olive oil on the baby’s bottom at each diaper
change. As your mild comes in the color
and consistency will change to a yellow, less-sticky stool. Olive oil is great, put it all over babies bottom - the meconium will not stick to babies skin.
·
If you
choose to treat your baby’s cord stump, the cord will dry, turn brown,
and fall off in about a week or so. Keep it dry, clean and uncovered if possible.
·
The baby should sleep of his or her back or
side with a rolled blanket for support.
Call
a care provider if:
BABY
·
Temperature is outside the normal range after rechecking it.
·
Does not urinate in the first 24 hours.
·
Does not pass meconium.
·
Skin turns yellow in the first 24 hours.
·
The umbilical cord area becomes red,
swollen or has a foul odour.
·
The baby has difficulty breathing or is
breathing faster than 60 times per minute.
·
Anything seems troubling or unusual.
MOTHER
·
Fever higher than 100.4 degrees F, six hours apart.
·
Flu symptoms present – fever/chills.
·
Persistent headache – not ameliorated by hydration
·
Breast problems – red, painful lumps, red streaks, pain in breast
while nursing.
·
Uterine pain – pain in the uterus unrelated to after pains,
feeling bruised. After pains usually
occur only in the first 3 days postpartum and increase with nursing, pumping or
a full bladder.
·
Perineal problems – worsening or extreme pain, pus,
increased swelling, redness or inflammation.
·
Bleeding – saturating one pad in an hour or less.
·
Foul-smelling discharge – pus or discharge that smells infected
(it is normal to have lochia that smells stronger than menstrual blood)
·
Depression – severe depression that affects daily functioning
and/or leads to obsessive thoughts about harming the baby or yourself.
The days after birth are
significant for the mother and child, as they adjust their subtle, emotional
and physical energies. Numerous
family-oriented cultures around the globe honour and nurture them both during
the first six weeks. These sacred days set the tone for a comforting and
caring relationship among the child and the family, and rejuvenate the mother
for breast-feeding, and child care.
HELPFUL HEALERS:
Compresses can stimulated
the flow of milk, preventing it from backing up and becoming infected. Warm water may be used, but steamed fresh Cabbage leaves or strong Comfrey tea compresses may be
helpful. Keep compresses on for 20
minutes.
Simple teas or infusions of nourishing herbs such as Comfrey,
Raspberry leaf, Nettles, Alfalfa or Red Clover encourage a plentiful supply of
breast milk and relaxed healthy mother.
The mineral rich nourishing herbs also protect you from mineral loss
during the stress of nursing and infant care.
Comfrey leaf. Drink in it and sit in
it, especially if you have had a perineal
tear. Drinking a cup a day of its
infusion builds new cells rapidly and helps alleviate pain. A sitz
bath soothes and heals, keeps the tissues flexible, and holds itching to a
minimum. Other herbs for sitz baths
include Yarrow and Witch Hazel.
Breastfeeding is probably the best cure for postpartum depression. The process helps moderate hormonal swings,
increases the endorphin level and allows your body to regain normal hormonal
balance slowly and evenly.
Clear-minded, non-drowsy relief
from the tension and confusion of overwhelming emotion is the promise of the Motherwort tincture. Use 5 drops in a glass of water, repeated as
needed. More than 4 doses a day for
several weeks may cause you to be dependent on it.
Hops is an excellent herb for increasing and enriching breast
milk. It is also helpful in relieving
after-pains.
Air and sunlight are potent healers and perfect infection preventers. If weather prohibits outdoor sunning, lay
your infant in a sunny window. Call it
a sunbath ... closed window sun moments are also effective if the weather is
cold. 5-10 min periods!! Babies skin is sensitive and only needs small
amounts of time in direct sun.
Remember to drink lots of water, eat frequently, rest, communicate
your needs, and enjoy these precious couple of weeks.